Judge Hashed A Father s Spirit of Humanity and Love

Yemenat

Mohammed Al-Mekhlafi

Reading what Judge Ahmed Saif Hashed wrote about his daughter Shaima’a on Facebook feels like stepping into a true human story, one that embodies the meaning of fatherhood, love, and compassion all at once.

Hashed simply wrote that his daughter had completed her university studies and that she had every right to choose the life partner she desired. These short sentences carry a profound defiance of rigid societal constraints and a deep belief in freedom and human dignity.

The young man Shaima’a chose was an American named Charles. A foreign name, a different religion, and customs far removed from our own. At first, Hashed felt anxious and uncertain, but those fears soon gave way to reassurance in the face of Charles’s sincerity and devotion. He embraced Islam and was even willing to relinquish his own name, demonstrating his seriousness and heartfelt desire to marry Shaima’a. This story is not about culture or difference, it is about a heart that transcends boundaries.

Their journey to marriage was far from smooth. They faced legal, religious, and social obstacles and endured harsh criticism, including attacks on social media. Yet Hashed remained steadfast: love is a fundamental human right, and true fatherhood is not about control or restriction, but about supporting one’s children and honoring their choices.

The story did not end with their marriage, it shone even more brightly during Hashed’s illness and open-heart surgery. Here, Charles’s true character became evident. He stayed by Hashed’s side in the hospital, comforting him every moment, barely resting, yet remaining steadfast in his presence. Even Charles’s mother reached out repeatedly, checking in to ensure Hashed’s wellbeing. These gestures reveal the depth of loyalty and prove that humanity knows no borders or nationality.

Through this story, Judge Hashed offers a rare model of fatherhood-